Maintaining Ethical Standards

The ethical issues that I am faced with are, although am a trousseaux counselor, I still sympathize with what the couple is going through in particular since a child is involved. Helping the couple will take a lot of work. First I would position both of them down and take heed to everything that they are going through. I would give them the pros of staying together in the state, therefore I would give them the con, because the state we are in does not earn same-sex marriage, they would lose their benefits such as tax benefits, health and social trade protection benefits.In the case of discrimination, the state will not offer any kind-hearted of recourse because the state law itself wont accept the marriage. Would then discuss with the couple, the cargo deck battle with Emily s parents. First would recommend that if it was k with Lois, Emily should have a one and one conversation with her parents. Another suggestion would for the couple to sit down with the grandparents and wi thout throwing their sexuality in their faces, simply explain to them, that even though they are gay, they are capable of being good parents. It would be trounce to not be pushy and listen to the concerns of the grandparents.If that didnt work then I would talk with the parents, sometimes a person outside of he par can shed a little light on the issue. Rebecca Farrell (personal communication, bound 20, 2009) points out that this case also involves custody issues that are challenging when focus a same-sex couple. If all that fails and the grandparents decide to pursue the custody, I would suggest for them to essay legal advice. For their safety from the neighbors and others that are interfering with them, I would suggest that they go to the area police station and make a statement, so the police can know their lives might be in danger.